Matthew 10:37 (WEB)
He who loves father or mother more than me is not worthy of me; and he who loves son or daughter more than me isn’t worthy of me.
Catechism · 1
“They must be convinced that the first vocation of the Christian is to follow Jesus: "He who loves father or mother more than me is not worthy of me; and he who loves son or daughter more than me is not worthy of me."” — Catechism footnote: Mt 10:37; cf. 16:25.
Fathers and councils · 29
Cyril of Jerusalem
“For the Lord said not, He that loveth father or mother is not worthy of Me, lest thou from ignorance shouldest perversely mistake what was rightly written, but He added, more than Me.” — editor's note: Matt. x. 37.
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Tertullian
““He who will value his life more than Me, is not worthy of Me; and he who takes not up his cross and follows Me, cannot be My disciple.”” — editor's note: Matt. x. 37, 38.
Read the whole comment“…his father’s obsequies, fulfilled, before he heard it, that highest precept of the Lord, “He who prefers father or mother to me, is not worthy of me.”” — editor's note: Matt. x. 37.
Read the whole comment“For God had commanded even Abraham to make a sacrifice of his son, for the sake not of tempting, but proving, his faith; in order through him to make an example for that precept of His, whereby He was, by and by, to enjoin that he should hold no pledges of affection dearer than God.” — editor's note: i.e. no children even. The reference is apparently to Matt. x. 37 and Luke xiv. 26, with which may be compared Deut. xiii. 6–10 and xxxiii. 9. If Oehler’s…
Read the whole comment“Surely only on the condition of their deserts, and not by any disavowal of His near relatives; teaching them by His own actual example, that “whosoever preferred father or mother or brethren to the Word of God, was not a disciple worthy of Him.”” — editor's note: Matt. x. 37.
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Cyprian of Carthage
“And he that taketh not his cross, and followeth after me, is not worthy of me.”” — editor's note: Matt. x. 37, 38.
Read the whole comment“In the Gospel the Lord speaks, and says: “He that loveth father or mother more than me, is not worthy of me; and he that loveth son or daughter more than me, is not worthy of me; and he that taketh not his cross and followeth me, is not worthy of me.”” — editor's note: Matt. x. 37, 38.
Read the whole comment“…and warns us, saying, “He that loveth father or mother more than me is not worthy of me, and he that loveth son or daughter more than me is not worthy of me.”” — editor's note: Matt. x. 37.
Read the whole comment“Also in the Gospel according to Matthew: “He that loveth father or mother above me, is not worthy of me; and he that loveth son or daughter above me, is not worthy of me; and he that taketh not up his cross and followeth me, is not my disciple.”” — editor's note: Matt. x. 37, 38.
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John Chrysostom
““He that loveth father or mother more than me, is not worthy of me; and he that loveth son or daughter more than me, is not worthy of me; and he that taketh not his cross and followeth after me, is not worthy of me.”” — editor's note: Matt. x. 37, 38.
Read the whole comment“And how, some one may say, is the burden light, when He saith, “Except one hate father and mother;” and, “Whosoever taketh not up his cross, and followeth after me, is not worthy of me:” and, “Whosoever forsaketh not all that he hath, cannot be my disciple:”when He commands even to give up our very life?” — editor's note: Luke xiv. 26, 27, 33; Matt. x. 37, 38.
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Jerome
“Yes, but whoso loves them more than Christ loses his own soul.” — editor's note: Matt. x. 37.
Read the whole comment“…saying: “I was troubled and I did not speak,” and then cried out in the words of scripture, “He that loveth son or daughter more than me is not worthy of me.”” — editor's note: Matt. x. 37.
Read the whole comment“They who said to father and mother, “We know you not,” these men fulfilled the will of the Lord.He that loveth father or mother more than Christ, is not worthy of Him.” — editor's note: Matt. x. 37.
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Basil the Great
““He that loveth,” He says, “father, or mother, or brother, more than me, is not worthy of me.”” — editor's note: Matt. x. 37, with ἀδελφούς added perhaps from Luke xiv. 26.
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Augustine of Hippo
“…this very matter, “He that loveth father or mother more than me is not worthy of me; and he that loveth son or daughter more than me is not worthy of me.”” — editor's note: Matt. x. 37.
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Catena Aurea on Matthew
- JeromeCatena Aurea on Matthew
Because of what He had said, “I am not come to send peace but a sword, &c.” that none might suppose that family affection was banished from His religion, He now adds, “He that loves father or mother more than me is…
Read the whole comment - Hilary of PoitiersCatena Aurea on Matthew
For they who have esteemed domestic affection of relations higher than God, are unworthy to inherit good things to come.
Read the whole comment - John ChrysostomCatena Aurea on Matthew
Yet when Paul bids us obey our parents in all things, we are not to marvel; for we are only to obey in such things are not hurtful to our piety to God. It is holy to render them every other honour, but when they…
Read the whole comment - Glossa OrdinariaCatena Aurea on Matthew
It seems to happen in many cases that the parents love the children more than the children love the parents; therefore having taught that His love is to be preferred to the love of parents, as in an ascending scale,…
Read the whole comment - Rabanus MaurusCatena Aurea on Matthew
He is unworthy of the divine communion who prefers the carnal affection of kindred to the spiritual love of God.
Read the whole comment - John ChrysostomCatena Aurea on Matthew
Then that those to whom the love of God is preferred should not be offended thereat, He leads them to a higher doctrine. Nothing is nearer to a man than his soul, and yet He enjoins that this should not only be…
Read the whole comment - Hilary of PoitiersCatena Aurea on Matthew
Or; “They that are Christ’s have crucified the body with its vices and lusts.” [Gal 5:24] And he is unworthy of Christ who does not take up His cross, in which we suffer with Him, die with Him, are buried and rise…
Read the whole comment - Gregory the GreatCatena Aurea on Matthew
The cross is so called from, torment [margin note: cruciatus]; and there are two ways in which we bear the Lord’s cross; either when we afflict the flesh by abstinence; or when in compassion for our neighbour we make…
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Because these commands seemed burdensome, He proceeds to shew their great use and benefit, saying, “He that findeth his life shall lose it.” As much as to say, Not only do these things that I have inculcated do no…
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The life in this place is not to be understood as the substance, (the soul,) but as this present state of being; and the sense is, He who findeth his life, i.e. this present life, he who so loves this light, its joys…
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Otherwise; He who seeks an immortal life, does not hesitate to lose his life, that is, to offer it to death. But either sense suits equally well with that which follows, “And whoso shall lose his life for my sake…
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That is, he who in confession of My name in time of persecution despises this temporal world, its joys, and pleasures, shall find eternal salvation for his soul.
Read the whole comment - Hilary of PoitiersCatena Aurea on Matthew
Thus the gain of life brings death, the loss of life brings salvation; for by the sacrifice of this short life we gain the reward of immortality.
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Cross-references · 33
Cited together in Catechism §2232.
Cited together in Epistles Letter 25.
Cited together in On Prayer Chapter 8.
Cited together in On Prayer Chapter 8.
Cited together in The Five Books Against Marcion IV.19.
Cited together in The Five Books Against Marcion IV.19.
Cited together in The Five Books Against Marcion IV.19.
Cited together in The Five Books Against Marcion IV.19.
Cited together in The Five Books Against Marcion IV.19.
Cited together in On Prayer Chapter 8.
Cited together in Epistles Letter 25 and 2 other places.
Cited together in Exhortation to Martyrdom, Addressed to Fortunatus Chapter 7 and 1 other place.
Cited together in Exhortation to Martyrdom, Addressed to Fortunatus Chapter 7 and 1 other place.
Cited together in The City of God XXI.26.
Cited together in The City of God XXI.26.
Cited together in The City of God XXI.26.
Cited together in The City of God XXI.26.
Cited together in The City of God XXI.26.
Cited together in Epistles Letter 25.
Cited together in On Prayer Chapter 8.
Cited together in The City of God XXI.26.
Cited together in Epistles Letter 25.
Cited together in On Prayer Chapter 8.
Cited together in On Prayer Chapter 8.
Cited together in On Prayer Chapter 8.
Cited together in On Prayer Chapter 8.
Cited together in On Prayer Chapter 8.
Cited together in John Chrysostom on Matthew 10:37–39 (Catena Aurea) and 2 other places.
Cited together in The City of God XXI.26.
Cited together in The Five Books Against Marcion IV.19.
Cited together in The Five Books Against Marcion IV.19.
Cited together in Epistles Letter 25.
Cited together in Epistles Letter 25.